| Welcome |
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| Creating Deeper Connections Description |
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A note on the founders of Voice Dialogue, Drs Hal
and Sidra Stone
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| Using Guides 1, 2, and 3 |
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| Important Information |
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| Dedication |
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| Acknowledgements |
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| Table of Contents |
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| Introduction to Voice Dialogue |
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| What is Voice Dialogue? |
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| What are the goals of Voice Dialogue? |
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| What is the theoretical foundation of Voice
Dialogue |
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What is Hal and Sidra Stones’ model of consciousness? |
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Illustration of the consciousness model |
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| The Basic Voice Dialogue Session –
description and illustrations |
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| Psychology of the Selves |
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| What is a self? |
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| What is the purpose of the selves? |
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| How do personality and the selves develop? |
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| -The role of personality and the selves |
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| -Illustration of development of personality and the selves |
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| -The role of vulnerability in the development of personality
and the selves |
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| -The role of vulnerability and power in the development of
personality and the selves |
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| - Illustration of the role of vulnerability and power in
the development of personality |
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| What are the different types of selves that comprise our personality? |
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| Illustration of the Mapping of the Primary and Disowned Selves |
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| What are the three levels of the selves? |
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| How do we embrace the selves? |
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| Stability vs. Instability of the Selves |
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| Primary Selves |
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| What are the primary selves? |
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| How do the primary selves develop? |
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| How do the primary selves work? |
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| What is the operating ego? |
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| Illustration of some of the primary selves of the operating
ego |
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| Does our identification with the primary selves change? |
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| How do we relate with the primary selves? |
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| Illustration of a primary self driving our psychological car |
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| Disowned Selves |
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| What is a disowned self? |
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| How do disowned selves work? |
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| How do we recognize a disowned self? |
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| Projecting our disowned selves |
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| - What is projection? |
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| - How do we project our disowned selves? |
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| - What is the gift that comes from projecting our disowned
selves? |
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| What is the disowned selves’ relationship to the primary
selves? |
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| Illustration of when the strength of a primary self is greater
than a disowned self |
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| How do we relate to the disowned selves?. |
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| Illustration of our primary self driving our psychological
car |
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| Aware Ego Process |
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| What is the theoretical basis of Voice Dialogue? |
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| What is the Aware Ego Process? |
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| How does the Aware Ego Process develop? |
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| Illustration of the moment of standing between opposites |
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| What are the capabilities of the Aware Ego Process? |
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| Illustration of holding the tension of a pair of opposites |
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| Overview of the development of the Aware Ego Process |
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- Illustration of the four stages in the development of
the Aware Ego Process |
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| The stages in the development of the Aware Ego Process? |
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- Awareness |
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- Illustration of awareness in relationship with the selves
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- What are the confusions about awareness? |
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- Putting perspective on the stages of development of
the Aware Ego Process |
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- Early Stage |
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- Middle Stage |
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- Late Stage |
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| How do we live from an Aware Ego Process? |
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- Dualistic thinking |
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- Trinity thinking |
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- Illustration of the trinity relationship in the Aware
Ego Process and the selves |
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- The impact of the Aware Ego Process in our life |
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- The slap theory |
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- Illustration of the slap theory |
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| What are the rewards of living from an Aware Ego Process? |
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| Illustration of the moment of reward with the Aware Ego Process |
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| How is the Aware Ego Process strengthened? |
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| Illustration of how judgments provide an opportunity to discover
our disowned selves |
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| Some images of the Aware Ego Process |
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| Illustration of driving our psychological car from an Aware
Ego Process |
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| What the Aware Ego Process is not? |
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| Energetics |
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What is the energetics of the Aware Ego Process? |
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| Energetics and Relationships |
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Energetic connection/linkage |
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What are the harmonics of relationships? |
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What are bonding patterns? |
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Illustration of the basic form of the bonding pattern |
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What are positive bonding patterns? |
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Illustration of a positive bonding pattern |
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What are negative bonding patterns? |
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Illustration of a negative bonding pattern |
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Illustration of positive and negative bonding patterns
in action |
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| Conscious and Unconscious Linkage |
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| What is unconscious linkage? |
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| Illustration of unconscious linkage in the basic bonding
pattern |
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| What is conscious linkage? |
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| Illustration of conscious linkage through the Aware Ego Process |
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| What is conscious and unconscious linkage in bonding patterns? |
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| What is conscious linkage and intimacy in relationships? |
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| Illustration of intimacy with conscious linkage through the
Aware Ego Process |
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| Illustration of energetics and linkage in action |
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| Voice Dialogue’s Other Concerns |
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| When not to do Voice Dialogue? |
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| Is Voice Dialogue compatible with other approaches? |
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| Resources |
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| List of Voice Dialogue Terms |
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